Being in a new relationship is exciting. Many people experience “butterflies” in their stomach, which happens because dopamine levels instantly increase when you’re around something or someone pleasurable. But new relationships can also be stressful because you don’t want to accidentally sabotage things. 

Because new relationships are full of possibilities, there is a clear ‘honeymoon phase’ in the beginning. If you are working hard to break free of certain cycles in your relationships, it’s important to develop realistic expectations and keep a level head. 

Below is some advice that will prevent you from sabotaging your new relationship. 

Keep the Past in the Past 

The older you get, the more experiences you go through. This means that every relationship you enter into, you are carrying more and more history. However, a big mistake that some people make is that they bring all of their past negative relationship experiences into their new relationship. 

Even though it’s not always easy, it’s best to keep your thoughts and conversations focused on the person you’re dating now. Avoid oversharing, as this can make your partner feel uncomfortable. Think of it this way. Every minute you spend enjoying your new partner, the more you get to learn about them!

Avoid Making Comparisons 

Another thing you’ll want to avoid is making comparisons between your new partner and your old partners. There is no advantage to doing this, and your current partner will likely end up feeling awkward. 

Comparing your relationship isn’t healthy either. You don’t really know what’s going on in someone else’s life, so spending time comparing your life to others’ is time-consuming, ineffective and a waste of precious energy. 

Be Open and Honest

If you’re not yet ready to be vulnerable, then you’re probably not ready to start dating again. While being open can be scary, especially if you were hurt by your previous partner, it’s essential to a healthy relationship. Showing this side of you will deepen your connection with your partner and establish trust. 

Stay Connected to Your Family and Friends 

It’s likely that you are excited about your new relationship – and that’s great! But don’t just stop living your current life. Sometimes, people in new relationships cancel on their friends and family so they can spend more time with their partner. However, anticipation and distance make the heart grow fonder. 

Pay Attention to Actions – Not Words 

Don’t just believe every word that people say. It’s better to trust a person’s actions. Pay attention to how your new partner introduces you to their friends and family. This will help you gauge how serious the relationship is and if your significant other sees you in their future. 

Speak with a Love Psychic Today 

New relationships are fun and exciting, but it’s also important to take your time, get to know the person and connect on a deeper level. Even though it’s a slower pace, it will help you build a healthy foundation for your new relationship. 

For insight into your relationship, schedule a psychic session with Jack Rourke, a love psychic in Los Angeles. Jack knows when love can blossom, how to nurture your relationship and how to identify genuine connections.